tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post6135349020594487442..comments2015-04-06T05:46:44.931-04:00Comments on Get Off My Lawn: VD Part 1.end transmission.http://www.blogger.com/profile/11100368775312320957noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-69173221706182121882011-02-14T09:18:18.700-05:002011-02-14T09:18:18.700-05:00Believe it or not, I too have loved.
It was exhau...Believe it or not, I too have loved.<br /><br />It was exhausting.<br /><br />I prefer lust.<br /><br />It's simpler and the orgasms are more frequent.<br /><br />What?<br /><br />- B xThe Barrenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104951958986232787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-27699655092899185972011-02-13T19:25:10.372-05:002011-02-13T19:25:10.372-05:00Chrissy, you have never struck me as someone who w...Chrissy, you have never struck me as someone who would give up. I think there are more adventures ahead for you. :-).end transmission.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100368775312320957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-75017682411673812102011-02-13T11:44:15.856-05:002011-02-13T11:44:15.856-05:00I've loved and lost. I think I exhausted my ch...I've loved and lost. I think I exhausted my chances.Bobby Allanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17362990178566295070noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-74649952244883523612011-02-12T19:59:23.134-05:002011-02-12T19:59:23.134-05:00I'm very pleased with your insights. Most impr...I'm very pleased with your insights. Most impressive. Return for part 2......end transmission.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100368775312320957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-35678521449520843082011-02-12T19:32:04.776-05:002011-02-12T19:32:04.776-05:00You have read of enough of my blog to know that I ...You have read of enough of my blog to know that I have zero credibility on the topic of love and/or relationships as I am a continual trainwreck when it comes to that but at least you know I am honest so I am going to throw my two cents in anyways. You're welcome. <br />I, despite all of the carnage, still believe that that feeling, that confirmation of initial love, will always be within the capacity of us as people to experience. It is, however, our choice to do so. I some people just choose to stop because the reward no longer outweighs the risk for them. <br />I never had those feelings for my husband but I married him anyways because it was the next logical step. I did have those feelings for one person after my marriage ended but he was toxic for me so I overruled that feeling with logic as a form of self-preservation. But I don't regret letting myself feel that because it was the one and only time in my life that I ever did. <br />Will I let myself do it again? Sit back, get bitten by mosquitoes and enjoy the thrill of the show as the sweet Kat described above? Or will I settle for fireflies and lemonade from the safety of my screen in patio? I don't know, but I think the choice will be mine to make. <br />Random Girl<br />www.randomgirlblog.comRandom Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05494483624821880838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-349147680572544762011-02-12T14:20:41.700-05:002011-02-12T14:20:41.700-05:00I have to agree with Mr. Blacklog, I have been wit...I have to agree with Mr. Blacklog, I have been with the same person nearly half my life (I'm 37, you do the math) and the fireworks are too much of a sensory overload to maintain constantly. I think it ebbs and flows, ya know. We walk a fine line between love and hate in our relationship. Sometimes I REALLY do hate him, but I love him for so many reasons that it never goes completely away. I know that is random and confusing, but it is what it is.<br /><br />So, my long-winded answer is no. Sadly, no we can't keep the fireworks forever....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03284151996869753065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-14563324950917803482011-02-12T13:37:51.391-05:002011-02-12T13:37:51.391-05:00After 45 years and counting on this planet and be...After 45 years and counting on this planet and being in the same relationship for 25 of these (notice how I’m establishing my credentials for this answer) I firmly believe that, and to quote you - "blinding over-the-top love that makes your knees weak, and your tummy full of butterflies when you see your lover walk into the room" cannot maintain a relationship. How many marathon runners (well the good ones anyway) sprint away from the start line and make it to the end…If one or both parties in a relationship live for just the lightning bolt moments then the relationship is doomed…..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6488829384708819450.post-68987475200638252712011-02-12T10:36:15.588-05:002011-02-12T10:36:15.588-05:00Hmm. I think that to really respond to this, I...Hmm. I think that to really respond to this, I'll have to do a post of my own, because I can feel myself going into rambling mode.<br /><br />By then I E.T's a cool guy, so I will leave a somewhat proper comment.<br /><br />The 4th of July: A Love Story<br /><br />New Love: Fireworks<br />Fireworks are awesome. They're loud, they're bright and most of the time they are associated with beer (or tequila or whiskey or vodka), and who could argue against that. Only after a while, fireworks can get annoying. They're loud (wait, wasn't this a good thing? yes, but it gets to be a bore and it gives you a headache), they smell like rotten eggs, and I fucking despise the mosquitoes that bite you the entire time that you're watching the fireworks.<br /><br />Old love: Fireflies<br />After the fireworks are over, and let's be honest, no one-NO ONE-has fireworks all of the time. People either go home and go to bed, waiting until the next night, or year, of fireworks, or there are the ones that choose to hang around on the back porch, sipping a pint and watching the fireflies. Some people would be content with this and would never miss it if they never saw fireworks again. Then there are others that, while the fireflies are nice, they get bored and become anxious for fireworks again. I guess it all depends on the person themselves, whether they've been burned by enough fireworks or just simply prefer them to fireflies, and also who are the are watching the fireworks or fireflies with.<br /><br />I dunno. That was a pretty shitty analogy after all, and I managed to ramble even though I said I wouldn't. I don't even think I really answered your question, E.T., so you may even want to delete this crazy biotch's comment here. ;-)<br /><br />Also I don't know if you have many married followers, E.T, but whenever I express my views on the subject, I usually get told by at least one married person who wrong I am. That's fine, I'm not out to convert anyone, and honestly, I don't want to. I don't understand the mechanisms of my heart (and even less than usual recently, much to my puzzlement) much less theirs, so I'm going to tell anyone how they should use it.katsidhehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09859540523817060764noreply@blogger.com